Monday, October 22, 2012

If your friend jumped off a bridge, would you?


I am glad that we finally came to the topic of peer pressure because I get to use two of my favorite commercials as examples. These commercials would be the 2010 Christmas commercial for TJ Maxx and Marshalls (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hfsTIOOcDzM&safe=active) and the 2011 Christmas commercial for TJ Maxx, Marshalls, and Home Goods (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=byG8AKKMjmA&safe=active).
Peer Pressure. We all try to avoid giving in to that weakness of letting others rule our decisions, but sometimes we fail. Sometimes we feel like it is the only way to belong. Acceptance is most likely the chief reason why we allow people to persuade us to do what they want to do. We have a fear of being rejected if we do not play along with their wishes; that fear is just a part of what it means to be human. Peer pressure sometimes plays on our other fears as well in order to get the job done. The commercials from 2010 and 2011 for these stores center around the purpose of these stores, which is to save you money, but uses peer pressure to get you there.
For instance, the 2010 advertisement draws you into the commercial with its opening lines in the jingle: “In the mall/ when you’re shopping/ budgets burst.” That is where they hit on everyone’s weak spot of hurting wallets. No one wants to break the bank when shopping, even if it is the holiday season. A couple lines later is where they call into question whether or not shopping at the mall is normal human conduct “with prices above/ what any normal human wants to pay.” You are not a normal homo sapien if you pay the high prices for the items at the mall. How can you fix this problem? Simply shop at TJ Maxx or Marshalls and you will be happier because your wallet hurts a little less.
Another example is the 2011 commercial that begins by questioning your very happiness for the holiday season: “Do you want the most wonderful Christmas of all?” Well, all you have to do is leave the mall and shop at TJ Maxx, Marshalls, or Home Goods. This ad uses the same thought process as the last one. All of these people are happy because they did not shop at the mall. They shopped at cheaper stores, which provide the hope for a great holiday because you are not worried about how much it is all going to cost you.
In both of these catchy ads, the biggest way they implemented peer pressure is not in the words they sang. It is what is happening through the entire commercial. There is this small group of people at the beginning of the commercial who want to inform everyone in the mall that they can get better prices elsewhere and begin a revolutionary movement throughout the mall. As they pass people, the group grows larger insinuating that all these people are joining the movement to “get out of here” – here being the mall – and be happier because they made this decision to follow the example of the people who began the commercial.
I acknowledge the fact that people can use peer pressure to get someone to do what is right, but that is not the right way for them to do it.
Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – his good, pleasing and perfect will.” (NIV)
The Bible tells us right here that we are not to give in to the pressures that come from the world (being man) but to be renewed in our minds (our thought process/decision making) so that we can know God’s will! Our ultimate goal as Christians is for our will to be God’s will, but peer pressure – pressure that has worldly origins – is a stumbling block to overcome.

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