Sunday, October 21, 2012

Peer-pressure and Trends: Conform or Transform?


The questions are asked numerous times on a daily basis.  “Did you hear about…?” or, “Did you see…?”  People have the constant desire to find out and inform others of newly released information.  It is, I believe, sparked by a longing to be on the “inside.”  Being on the “inside” is the status, or brand, that people are continuously attempting to attain.  Why is this position so sought after?  There are probably many answers to this question and many more that people are trying to figure out (and be the first to tell other people). 

It is sometimes easy to see the way trends spread.  It happens right before our eyes in several instances.  You might find something appealing or, because your friends are engaged as well, you decide to spread the wealth and tell others.  I can think of new games that come out or places to eat that I have heard and told others about in this way.  Word of mouth is so powerful.  The excitement of being the first person to bring the news of something new to a group of people is incredible.  If some event takes place that you know holds importance to other people, it always feels the best being able to tell them about it and being one of the first to know.  This is the reason why trends, items, and news spread like wildfire.  People are constantly spreading and trying to find out the newest information first.  Technology has been advanced and marketed for these purposes.  Updates about nearly anything you want can be received on your phone wherever you are and extremely fast due to the newest and fastest version of phone.  Social networking sites allow constant updating of new information about people’s lives so that nobody will be left on the “outside” of what is happening.

While contemplating this topic, I began to think about myself.  I thought about why I buy what I buy and do what I do.  Technology is advancing so quickly and is spreading so rapidly to accommodate the need for people to know more, faster.  Why?  The newest trends catch on and spread throughout and get old soon enough, giving birth to something newer.  It creates a constant cycle of, “Who has the newest?” and, “Who knows the latest?” without end.  What is the reason behind buying and doing the things that we do?  Is it because that is what society and the people around us do or is it because that is what we really believe we should do? 

This constant cycle and the ambitious push to feed and be fed information may seem overwhelming to keep up with.  In fact, I would say that it all collectively seems meaningless.  The thirst to be on the cutting edge of the newest trend and the next best upcoming item is exhausting and undoubtedly ends in failure.  There is no way to constantly stay on the “inside.”  As the writer of Ecclesiastes writes, it is “a chasing after the wind.”  There is no truth or substance in these passing fads.  True meaning is found in Jesus Christ alone.  We are called, “to be made new in the attitude of [our] minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness” (Ephesians 4: 23-24). This is the trend we are supposed to follow.  We are not supposed to act as peer-pressure and the schemes of men might want us to, but we are to rid ourselves of the old ways that led us to nothing and, “be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God” (Ephesians 5:1-2).  If we imitate the everlasting, unchanging God, we will be transformed to be like Him instead of being persuaded to conform to the trends and desires of today’s society.  Are you being conformed to the cravings of the world, or are you being transformed to the likeness of God?

 

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